Oral sex is an essential part of foreplay; it’s a great way of priming a woman and reduces the pressure on the amount of time that a man lasts while having sex. Here is a guideline on how guys need to go about when giving ladies oral sex.
* Don’t rush in
Most guys aren’t aware on how to go about when performing oral sex. They tend to rush into it in an attempt to get through in a very short time; oral sex must be a gradual process. Kiss her lips and neck as you make your way down her body until you get to her inner thighs. Ensure that you make a good eye contact and position yourself in a comfortable way so that you can caress her breasts every now and then.
* Build up gradually
When you begin kissing and licking, it’s important to work your way from outside. This makes the feelings more intense. A slow build up makes better orgasm for women. A wide majority of women are sensitive to touch; this includes touches performed by the tongue as well. Start gently so that you can see what your woman exactly wants. The clitoris is full of nerve endings; ensure that you listen to all her signals.
* Get creative while using your tongue
The key to giving women good oral sex is to ensure that your tongue is always on the move. If you aren’t sure on this, keep the tongue flat and lick the entire clitoris and vulva as well. Do a side to side, an up and down move or even a mixture of both.
* Use your hands also
When giving oral sex, ensure that you have kept your hands at a free position so that you can add some extra element. If you are in a position where you can caress both her breasts and body the better. You can use one hand so that you can slightly lift up her “clitoris hood’’ from where you can access the most sensitive parts and stimulate them using your tongue. Make attempts to multitask by using your fingers when stimulating the G-spot so that you can prepare her for the next level.
It’s never easy to speak to a woman when performing oral sex on her, it’s important to listen to the kind of sounds that she is making. Women are a little bit shy but when properly engaged, they can talk about what they like and what they don’t. It’s also important to read her body language. If your girl is not a talker, look for signs like heavier breathing or even moaning. If she holds the top your head with a tight grip, this is one sign that she’s getting closer to the climax.
* Experiment with several positions
It’s important to try different positions so that you can establish the best position that works for both of you. You can also introduce several new positions. Whatever you choose to do, ensure that you mix up several styles so that she doesn’t feel as if it’s a routine. Don’t be so predictable to an extent that she can always tell your next move. Be creative, flexible and responsive.